Will my cat love me again?
Will my cat love me again? General Dog Discussions
My cat will be 6years old this July, and I've had him since he was a kitten. He was born to a feral mom. He's been with me his whole life, and has lived with several other pet siblings - other cats and dogs, and different homes. 3 months ago I moved out of my last home and back to my mom's for a temporary stay... and she HATES animals 
Yah... and wouldn't allow him to stay here. I found him a temporary home with my 2 guy friends, and their 2 kitties. I visit him 1-2 times a week, and every time I open the door to my friend's house, my kitty looks at me, and goes to run, or hide. My friends have rearranged their living room furniture so that he can't hide under the couch anymore. They also close the doors in the house, so that my kitty won't run to a room and hide under a bed. When I do get a hold of him and hold him, he seems ok and like my baby kitty, but then he starts growling. It's usually just that low growl. Today he nipped me a teeny bit. I'm wondering if he'll EVER be ok with me again. I'm wondering HOW upset is he at me. My kitty and I used to sleep together. His face would be so close to mine that I could feel his breath, and his paw would be across my cheek. I was never afraid of him. I knew that he had a wild streak in him... but I was never afraid of him. Now I see him and I worry that he's going to be mean and hurtful. 
I don't know if he's just sad and upset, or if he is just over me. It'll be 4-5months until I can be fully with him again, and I am not sure what to do. One of my friend's cats apparently loves him and they are best friends and that friend doesn't mind my kitty. I know worst case scenario he would keep him... but that breaks my heart. I'm going to be moving across the country and would be taking him with me - ideally... and also into a new home... with 2 new kitties. Sighs... will he hate me again??I just don't know. I love him and don't know if he is just horribly mad, or loves me still. It makes me SO SO SO SAD Thanks
Yah... and wouldn't allow him to stay here. I found him a temporary home with my 2 guy friends, and their 2 kitties. I visit him 1-2 times a week, and every time I open the door to my friend's house, my kitty looks at me, and goes to run, or hide. My friends have rearranged their living room furniture so that he can't hide under the couch anymore. They also close the doors in the house, so that my kitty won't run to a room and hide under a bed. When I do get a hold of him and hold him, he seems ok and like my baby kitty, but then he starts growling. It's usually just that low growl. Today he nipped me a teeny bit. I'm wondering if he'll EVER be ok with me again. I'm wondering HOW upset is he at me. My kitty and I used to sleep together. His face would be so close to mine that I could feel his breath, and his paw would be across my cheek. I was never afraid of him. I knew that he had a wild streak in him... but I was never afraid of him. Now I see him and I worry that he's going to be mean and hurtful. I don't know if he's just sad and upset, or if he is just over me. It'll be 4-5months until I can be fully with him again, and I am not sure what to do. One of my friend's cats apparently loves him and they are best friends and that friend doesn't mind my kitty. I know worst case scenario he would keep him... but that breaks my heart. I'm going to be moving across the country and would be taking him with me - ideally... and also into a new home... with 2 new kitties. Sighs... will he hate me again??I just don't know. I love him and don't know if he is just horribly mad, or loves me still. It makes me SO SO SO SAD Thanks 